Dreams
Dreams Of Spouse Cheating By J. Foley
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel some lack of attention in the relationship. A lot of times people with trust issues have been cheated on in previous relationships so it's not hard to understand why they fear that it will happen again. Many dreams come from the private unconscious and are a reflection on thoughts, fears, desires, issues or are a response to stressful or anxiety provoking situations. At times people have dreams about cheating on their partners as a response to a long and monogamous relationship.
Your mind may ignore this as nothing during the day, but during the night the subconscious lets loose the fears of being left by another. You may be expressing some fear or frustration especially when something is not going as planned. The embarrassment, fear and betrayal can be overwhelming. Worse yet is not knowing if your spouse or partner is really cheating on you.
In the dream state the individual confronts his fears and from there may begin to deal with the situation on a conscious level. The embarrassment, fear and betrayal can be overwhelming. Then the thought of not knowing if your spouse is really cheating on you can disrupt your love life. What I mean by this is when asleep, try and realize that you are having a bad dream and face your fear, beat the dream.
Giving up the cheating spouse dream means getting rid of your fears and living a life of freedom with your partner as well as family. Rather than live in fear of the possibility that your spouse is committing infidelity or remain paralyzed by a betrayal that has taken place, you can educate yourself on infidelity and empower yourself to prevent infidelity from happening. However,if your still driven by this, Infidelity Investigations can end your fear and anxiety, by discreetly providing you with the Truth!
Article Written By J. Foley






I was having dreams that my boyfriend of seven years was cheating on me and I couldnt stop dreaming of them. Months later he ends up cheating on me and tells me... Was the dream a warning for me or a coincidence?
Posted by: cieara | February 26, 2009 at 09:27 PM
maybe you have had this in your consciousness for sometime, and then it came out in your dream(s). Some say we dream about the day's events or thoughts. Most people already know when their partner is cheating on them, either consciously or subconsciously. So if this is the case, your dream may have been a sign... This is such a personal thing, only you really know what's up here...
Posted by: JJ | February 26, 2009 at 10:37 PM
My brother in law spent the whole weekend (fri-sun)with us, those are the days my husband & I spend together, our alone time!!! Sunday he takes him home & goes snowboarding too! I had this terrible dream lastnight but its good to know that it is just my subconscious telling me that I've been felling abandoned this weekend :(
Posted by: Kassy | March 08, 2009 at 01:08 PM
I often go through times where I will dream about my husband cheating on me. It is devistating and feel all to real. I have a wonderful husband, but in my past I have two ex-husbands that both cheated on me. My husband and I have been together for 8 years and I wonder and he wonders when I will stop being fearful of being abandoneded again. He takes it personal when I have these dreams and need some reassurance from him. I don't want to drive a wedge between us with my insecurities, but I don't know how to stop dreaming and fearing infedelity. Just trying to understand. :(
Posted by: Wendy | August 10, 2009 at 05:36 PM
I've been with my fiance for three years. About a year ago he made me believe he was cheating, just to make me mad. Which caused us to split up, until we talked it through, but now it won't go away. And I have dreams almost every night that hes cheating with the same person. I try not to think about it, because now were both home all the time so its impossible for him to be cheating. We've talked about it so much it should be crystal clear he didn't cheat. I've never had a dream feel this real, sometimes I wake up mad at him. And I have to say it was a dream in my head to become calm about it. IDK what to do:(
Posted by: Cassidy | September 26, 2009 at 12:33 PM
omg lately i been having dreams about my husband cheating on me, i mean before in the past he did cheated on me when i was pregnant, but now im sure hes good, but than i started having these dreams especially him going back with his x...and it gets me real sad, but than i am a Negative, person VERY!!!
Posted by: carmen | October 23, 2009 at 08:31 PM
So a couple of days ago I had an awful dream that my spouse and I were arguing.then all of a sudden he comes and kisses another woman says he's leaving me and I'm the one chasing after him threw the whole dream. He didn't want me any more. But I remember the othe womans face so well, I've never seen her before in my life and turns out she works with my spouse. How do I understand this dream is it a warning of what might happen or what's already happened I'm lost and confused and it's on my mind now ever since I dreamt it.
Posted by: veronica | December 22, 2009 at 08:48 AM
my girlfriend cheated on me 6 years ago and when we ment and ever since i keep having bad dreams she is cheating on me what dos this mean
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Posted by: coach outlet | November 03, 2010 at 04:08 AM
I had a dream were my husband was skating with 2 women and he was being unfaitfull I confroted him in the dream what does that mean ???pleasa help ??
Posted by: vianey | January 06, 2011 at 05:42 AM
i have been having dreams that my wife has cheated on me, i know the person in the dream, and i have actually woken up heart broken and crying, we have 2 great kids and have been together 18 yrs, it makes me very upset, i feel insecure because i still have the dream, different settings , but the same dream, i lv my wife very much, but these dreams are killing me and could end up finishing the relationship, i know she lvs me ,but lvs not the problem i dread going to sleep now.
Posted by: paul | April 11, 2011 at 03:17 AM