In the beginning of any relationship there are habits to adjust to, personality quirks to discover, and systems to be worked out. One of you may prefer to share the covers at night, for instance, while the other may want them all to himself. It is important to talk about these sorts of things, because they can lead to a deeper understanding of the person now sharing your bed and your life, and they help us realize just what we have gotten into.
I am not a big fan of relationship advice columns, but I do have a suggestion for everyone who is currently in a relationship or thinking of having one in the future. If you share a bed with someone at night, try sharing your dreams with each other in the morning, too.
Think about it: you have both gotten up early, it's time to make some coffee and head off to work. The night before was so special (for reasons I don't have to go into here), and yet as you glance across the table at your partner you can't think of a single thing to say that doesn't involve money, schedules, or what to cook for dinner. There has got to be something more interesting, more romantic even, to start the day off with.
Then you remember a little snippet of a dream from the night before. The two of you were






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